Wow, thanks a lot, this is the best explanation that I was able to find so far!

Im not sure if you are aware but you do not have to create a new Account on there. Photon is another client just like Summit is, so you can login using your piefed.social account.
Sadly im not on android anymore but will be coming back soon! There are couple to choose from, just from the looks i like sync and interstellar but im not sure how well they support piefed. Lemmy was first so it was first supported.

https://join.piefed.social/docs/piefed-mobile/
https://piefed.social/community/fediverse/wiki/piefed-app

I'm happy to say I've managed to marry a leftist

The Good ending.

We've always been ready. Ready for the drama.

PieFed.zip takes an interesting approach: it blocks the most controversial instances but not as defederations i.e. at the instance level, and instead does so automatically for every new account upon sign-up, then sends the user a message explaining how to remove that block. From there they can unblock, reblock, back and forth as they choose at will. It thus makes federation with hexbear and Lemmygrad as opt-in rather than opt-out or obligatory or neglected as all other instances across the Threadiverse do.

I do not recall if it does this for lemmy.ml as well - I would suspect not, sadly, but then again it would be fairly unique in that respect if it did, as virtually no major instances do so.

And as far as far-right instances, those do not really exist, though nonetheless the historical ones are in the defederation list (exploding heads, freespeechextremists, and ofc threads.net:-P), and surely over time new instances could be added as well.

Finally I will add that I've never seen the tiniest hint of documentation for any of this - not in https://piefed.zip/defed_policy, or the welcome messages in their !announcements@piefed.zip or !home@piefed.zip local communities, and now I don't see their listing anywhere in the instance picker site, despite trying multiple host instances of that including themselves. I only know about this since I too questioned how Newbie-friendly any instance was that federates with the above-mentioned pair, and the instance admin told me about this, but even now months later I still don't see an official description written down about this somewhere easily accessible by people.

The Threadiverse is still very much a Work-In-Progress! But... it's getting better, and PieFed.zip is a major part of that progress, it looks to me.

She didn't even really have the liberal pit-stop many of us take.

Glad to hear I'm not the only one. Imagine my chagrin after years of rigorously checking the assumptions and programming of my conservative upbringing and converting to liberalism, when I found out that leftism and liberalism are actually different things, with a diversity of opinions and worldviews that I then needed to parse in order to determine where I stand...

This mentality where "If you weren't born leftist and raised leftist and been leftist all your life and all your friends are leftist, then you're fascist scum who needs to perish in the revolution" is doing incalculable harm to any genuine leftist movement.

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I keep saying "We can't keep alienating potential allies if we want to unite the working class" but they hit me with the "class traitors don't matter / we don't want to work with anyone who was formerly conservative [(as if anyone is to blame for their upbringing...)] / you're just a fascist apologist who needs to die in the revolution too / only our flavor of leftism is true leftism and anyone who disagrees with us is fascist scum who needs to die in the revolution / if you don't unquestioningly accept everything we tell you without any nuance then you're an enemy of the proletariat and need to die in the revolution"

They're really making leftism as a whole look bad, and they don't even realize it. I mean, how can you claim to represent the proletariat while simultaneously claiming that 60% or more of the proletariat need to be executed as class traitors? It's like they're trying to conform to the caricature that the right-wing depicts "radical leftist liberal communists" as. You're not going to catch many flies with that vinegar.

They'll say things like "we don't need help from fascist shitlibs" and other unironic and oxymoronic absurdities of that nature, but if you want a popular uprising then you're going to need to convince a majority of the population that you're all on the same team, otherwise you're nothing but an authoritarian reactionary.

It makes me really not want to take part in their supposed "revolution," especially when you see what the bolsheviks did to the soviets and anarchists after they helped them win theirs...
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It's not a problem on PieFed, it's mostly been delt with

Gatekeeping, nice.

I don't think I have ever felt this validated in my entire life, thank you.

The trick is starting a community, but delegating moderation to someone else. Admin ≠ Mod.

Is reddit blocking VPNs now? I don't use reddit anymore, but sometimes I search something on the web and like it or not, redditors in niche communities have good answers to uncommon questions. Definitely better than can be found on quora or other places.

But it doesn't let me view them, supposedly because I'm using a VPN now...

If that's the case, fuck spez and all corporate sellouts. Reddit used to be a mecca for freedom of association...

It's 2026. We've more than accepted that the people who simp for capitalism are the problem.

I have changed instances several times and it seems to me to be the simplest mechanism humanly imaginable.

Unironically this. We need cute animals. Cats, owls, moths, capibaras, pangolins. If we're not gonna have one of the two "true movers" of the internet (porn and correcting people who are wrong) we need something good to compensate.

Why would you use local as a source of recommendation instead of all? I find using the local tab very limiting, it will never be as complete as all my tastes and hobbies

Tbf piefed.zip doesn't have much of a local so that makes sense for you, but the user above is on feddit.org, which is a long-running German-language (at least prominent) instance so it does make sense for them in that context if they're German.

They block unless you're logged in. It's very annoying, still have to use reddit occasionally to find some info or something niche (admittedly not as bad as finding something on discord).

Welcome to the Threadiverse! You will enjoy it here, once you find your peers:-).

Lemmy.ml only claims to be for marxist-leninists - for actual real ones you may prefer e.g. slrpnk.net or perhaps lemmy.dbzer0.com. The lemmy.ml admins are (in)famously authoritarian, banning people from communities that they've never so much as heard of due to comments made elsewhere, citing a rule that does not exist - nowhere is it written down, yet everyone knows that you are not allowed to criticize Russia, China, or North Korea (or not praise them hard enough?). Mind you, they are free to do as they please, but to enforce an entirely different set of rules than the publicly announced ones... yes that generates much friction across the Threadiverse.

The fact that they (both users and even admins) routinely celebrate murder of everyone who merely lives in a Western civilization (collaborators?) kinda puts most people off from them, and also aside from that, their communication style where your consent does not matter puts aside the rest. They famously brag about creating alt accounts to get around bans - for them no does not mean no, but merely that they have to get a bit more clever about their proselytizing. So yes there's beef, but mostly despite what they claim, it is not mere political differences, and due more to their incel culture that is the leftist version of MAGA's Alternative Right, upholding "alternative facts". Plus in true echo chamber style, banning anyone who attempts to say otherwise, and also in general harassing people in other communities, with appeals to their admins to reign in their users falling on deaf ears.

If you are interested, see an absolute mountain of details in the !meanwhileongrad@sh.itjust.works community, such as the pinned monthly megathread "Documentation of Lemmy.ml's Extremism [Megathread]", but you can also read other more focused topics such as "Lead Lemmy Developer, Dessalines, denying the Tiananmen Square Massacre and praising the Uyghur Genocide" and "[Transphobia Warning] Nutomic’s Stance on Transgender People", etc.

Personally I user blocked the entire instance, and have never once regretted that. You do not have that option btw, on a Lemmy instance (unless you use one of the rare 3rd party apps that provides it), you would have to switch to a PieFed instance to get that along with just an absolute ton of other features that Lemmy lacks but PieFed has had for months, and it will take Lemmy years and years to catch up, if ever. Also fair warning you do have something that claims to be a user block of an instance, but it is extremely misleading - to the point of disinformation even - as it merely blocks communities located on that instance while still leaving users on it to read, reply to, and manipulate the vote on your content, as well as to send you DMs, even triggering notifications, and there is no way to stop any of that. A better term than instance block would have been a community muting.

And just in general the level of discourse with people on Lemmy.ml accounts seems to be significantly lower - not always but by far it is generally the case, as the most toxic and generally batshit insane comments that you see tend to come from users on that instance.

So now you know!:-)

Well they blocked every account associated with my IP, so I'm not doing that either.

Are there any third-party reddit readers that circumvent this? Or did their API shenanigans block that, too?

The Left eats its own. The Right too... eventually, though seems to do a better job (especially lately but also historically as well) of putting aside their differences in the short-term in order to strategically attain their goals. e.g. they will accept a trans person of color voting for them... for a time, before they eventually put them to death.

This probably helps explain the global rise of fascism since WWII. Fascism is winning, and will do even more so given modern technology like surveillance tools.

Which makes the attitude of the so-called "leftists" on e.g. hexbear or lemmy.ml seem all the more odd to me. It appears as if the emotional "high" of incel-like whinging supercedes any actual irl progress attempts to be made. It is very juvenile. In their defense (if it can be called thus) they exist inside of echo chambers and so are kept in that juvenile state artificially. Right or so-called "Left", it is really difficult to break out of such a cult-like existence.

And the Threadiverse does not seem eager to either help them break out or at least protect new users and thereby expand the Threadiverse to a much wider audience, by e.g. defederation. In large part since people prefer to use the Lemmy devs to continue to develop that software, regardless of the consequences that will have upon the state of the Threadiverse overall (tbf, Lemmy was genuinely first there, and yet many of us are only here because first Kbin, then Mbin and now PieFed offers an alternative?). Thus, the enhancement of PieFed is my first real hope there (well, ever since the demise of Ernst's Kbin) that things can get better.