I mean if no single software fits your bill, maybe go for a combination of them? Post your blog posts in a Ghost installation, your podcasts in Castopod and have your community on a NodeBB forum? The Fediverse kinda includes the idea it's all one big network anyway. So you don't have to squeeze everything on a single server and one CMS.
Other than that: Wordpress is open-source. You could also wait for the enshittification to happen. We're fairly sure someone is going to fork it and maybe they'll provide a seemless migration. So if you're patient enough, you might be able to stick with your current setup. Just that you Wordpress will some day have a different name and developer community. These things happen all the time. I'll just switch from Firefox to LibreWolf once I'm unhappy with Mozilla's decisions. Solves the user-facing part of the issues, and there's almost no effort involved.

But you're right, this could very well be a way to solve the "one size fits none" conundrum.

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